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Coaching for 

Next-Time- Around Relationships

 

​In a new relationship following a death or divorce, and facing trust issues, grief and blended family challenges?

 
 
 

​You may have been divorced or widowed and found love again, but past relationships, children from previous relationships, and experiences of sadness and grief might be affecting your new relationship. You might face trust issues, frequent arguments, challenges with children and ex-partners, feelings of being unheard and misunderstood, and difficulties with intimacy.

 

Build a supportive and loving relationship that lasts the next time around

 
 

Through personalised coaching, you'll learn to leave the past behind and create a new, strong relationship. Learn to let go of the past and embrace each other for who you are with all your past experiences. Develop strong communication skills, ability to manage the blending of your families together as a team. Get clear on your roles in each other's family. Create a relationship that is strong, loving and safe into the future.

Do you want to know more?

 
 

What you are experiencing now:

  • Fear that your past trust issues will damage your relationship
     

  • Lots of repetitive arguments over trivial things
     

  • Issues arising from children from previous relationships and blending families
     

  • Challenges with ex-partners

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  • Feeling unheard, disrespected, and annoyed with each other

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  • Difficulties with your sex life due to menopausal or andropausal changes

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  • Feeling shut out by your partner, leading to a loss of connection​

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  • Feeling alone in your relationship

Learn how to argue better, communicate so you stay connected and feel loved and respected
Next time around relationships have their own challenges. Learn to navigate blended families and past hurts

  • Defensiveness, criticism, and judgement of each other
     

  • Struggles with family health issues taking up energy and space

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  • Hurt by past events you can’t let go of

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  • Worried you might make the same mistakes as in the past
     

  • Wondering how to bring both of your lives together

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  • Concerned about the anxiety and concern of being with someone new

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  • Unsure how to blend your two families and set boundaries with your kids
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  • Concerned the issues with your ex might be too much for your partner​

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What you would like to feel:

 

  • Enjoy life and your new relationship 
     

  • Understood, heard, respected, and valued
     

  • Safe, knowing you are in this together

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  • That you are able to let go of past hurts and grief
     

  • You can solve challenges with ex-partners and kids from previous relationships together

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  • You are in a relationship that supports and nurtures you both

Create a loving, healthy, fun, relationship with healthy communication now and into the future

  • Connected and intimate
     

  • Supported and respected - that your new partner has your back
     

  • That you can communicate better than in past relationships
     

  • That you are not going to repeat past mistakes 

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  • You can include your new partner in your life 
     

  • That the excitement of your new relationship won't be overshadowed by practicalities of other family
     

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Creating a new relationship after a difficult breakup, with kids and ex-partners involved, can be both exciting and challenging. Getting support to navigate emotional and practical challenges is crucial to safeguard your new relationship.


If your previous partner is deceased, support is essential to avoid constant comparisons and manage guilt, ensuring your new relationship thrives.


A loving, successful relationship is possible the next time around. By actively discovering, learning, and growing together, you will ensure this relationship provides the love, connection, intimacy, and safety you need and desire into the future.

 

Through coaching, you will:

How coaching can help

 
 
 

  • Discover ways to manage the past hurt or grief and let go so you can move on in your new relationship

  • Strengthen your understanding and management of uncomfortable emotions/feelings

  • Expand your ability to understand each other to avoid old patterns from the past

  • Learn how to let love in again

  • Discover ways to work together in bringing your families together

  • See your new partner for who they are, not through the lens of the past.

  • Learn better communication skills this time around to safeguard your relationship

  • Discover how to keep your relationship safe, and be each other's number one,  while including each other's family

  • Learn ways to navigate how to parent each other's kids

  • Build a strong foundation for the future, ensuring you have a solid relationship going forward.

 

Do you want to know more?

 
 

I went to Sharlene because of struggles with power balance and unhealthy arguments/communication in my relationship with my partner. 

 

We had a total shift in our relationship by the end of the programme. Sharlene helped me discover issues/pain points outside of my relationship and through personal coaching she readied me to have joint sessions with my partner. 

 

She gave us tools and methods to grow together outside of the individual and couple sessions so the impact and growth was always continual. Sharlene's impact on my personal life, goals and my relationship has been life changing and our relationship is now  focused on our growth both individually, and as partners, and we are seeing each other and valuing each other for who we are and we are both excited for our future together.

 
 

A.J Barcelona

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