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Stop doing things that don't work
Learn new strategies
Understand yourselves and each other better
Experience more love and intimacy
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Sharlene Halbert
Your Relationship and Intimacy Coach
Make your relationship reflect the love you feel for each other
Contact Me
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Do you have difficulties communicating, feeling heard, loved, respected, or have a loss of sex, intimacy and trust in your relationship?
It doesn’t have to stay that way.
Learn how to rebuild your relationship so both of you can begin to experience the trust, love, intimacy, passion and respect you once had, or the skills you need to stop arguing and create more connection
You know you love each other but your relationship feels stuck and you don't know what to do...
Remember the early days of your relationship?
You probably:
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couldn’t wait to see each other
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had lots of connection
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had fun together
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talked endlessly about trivial and deep things
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laughed at each other’s jokes
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felt loved and connected
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spent time together - just the two of you
Now you feel:
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Frustration, anger, and resentment
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Repetitive arguments that you can't resolve
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Stress and tension affecting your health
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Loss of confidence in yourself
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Lack or loss of intimacy and sex
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Feeling alone
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A loss of trust and connection
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Your relationship once meant the world to you and it’s still worth fighting for.
All too often, when a committed relationship breaks down, one or both partners try everything they can think of to fix it, only to continue feeling frustrated, alone, angry, and unloved. Sometimes love is just not enough...
Growing up, my friends often asked me for advice about their relationships, but when it was my turn, I messed it up. I fell for someone I met at a bar (remember when that happened?) We connected deeply, had a lot of passion, and had tremendous fun together. We once drove 16 hours on a whim to visit friends, had a meal with them and drove right back!
There was no happy ending, though. When things got tough, we didn’t work through them as adults. Some things we never said, and some things should never have been said. We often stuck to our own opinions even when they drove us apart. So even though I saw a future with him, when I had a chance to leave for a job, I took it.
That’s when I first understood that if you want to make a relationship work, love just isn't enough.
Couples can love each other but not their relationship. If they don't deal with their challenges, they also start to realise love just isn't enough, so I support them to discover what is missing and what they need to have a relationship worthy of their love.
Get Access to a New Way of Positively Impacting Your Relationship That Works
Here’s how:
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Book A Clarity Call
Let’s hit the ground running and talk about what you want for your relationship now and into the future
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Choose Your Program
Take action and make tangible changes using a strategic approach to improve your relationship with support and guidance along the way.
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Experience the Difference
Stop rehashing the past, feeling alone and lost, and learn a new approach. Take proactive steps - many of which are fun - to improve your relationship, and create a relationship that honours the love you feel for each other
When You Take Action This Process Works,
But Don’t Take My Word For It.
Hear how my program positively impacted some of my clients' relationships.
I just want to say a massive thank you to you.
I ‘m so incredibly grateful for the journey that you have … guided me on from feeling irritated and frustrated like I was just totally butting heads with my husband in a matter of weeks to feeling the fun, the joy, the happiness, the peace that I have been after… Click here to see video
Julia Dickenson, The Gold Coast, Australia
I sought Sharlene’s help because I was worried that my husband and I were drifting further and further apart and I wasn’t looking forward to us getting old together anymore. With Sharlene’s help...we’ve started to have fun again and I don’t feel we are just living through the drudge of everyday anymore...
Working in this way has helped me remember why we got together all those years ago... Life doesn’t have to be boring as we get older, it can still be whatever we want it to be.
I’m very glad I took the plunge and sought Sharlene’s help and I would wholeheartedly recommend her to anyone who is looking to positively change their relationship with their partner.
D.T. Barcelona, Spain
Our coaching experience with Sharlene has been comfortable, supportive, and insightful. We felt truly heard and understood, and appreciate the depth of exploration that the coaching sessions have provided. The sessions were not only meaningful but also playful and curious, which made the process engaging and enjoyable.
We valued the ability to express vulnerability and discover new aspects of our relationship in a safe environment. We found the coaching journey with Sharlene to be a transformative experience, equipping us with the tools and mindset for a thriving relationship.
We would recommend coaching to new couples, regardless of their stage, as it helps uncover differences in communication styles and strengthens connections before challenges arise. We also see coaching as beneficial for long-term couples navigating new life stages. Check out their video testimonial here
Pat and Jenny,
USA and Spain
Feel empowered and confident that you have the tools to have a happy and healthy relationship at any stage of your relationship
As a Relationship and Intimacy Coach, I know you want your intimate relationship to be a healthy one. You know there is still love there, but somehow you have both lost your way. The life changes like small kids, menopausal changes, young adults leaving home, health or financial issues you are experiencing are not helping. The problem is that you want something different; something more, but there have been so many hurtful arguments and stress that you’ve lost trust, intimacy and no longer feel connected. It makes you wonder how long you can keep going like this. Or maybe, you just know you want to create something deeper...
I believe that most relationships are worth saving and even one person can make a significant difference. Read More...
